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Self Esteem

She Heard Voices

Millions suffer from low self-esteem. Research proves it contributes to other mental and emotional disorders. Positive affirmations can combat low self-esteem and possibly improve other major disorders such as depression, alcoholism and other addictions. An accurate opinion of who we are in God's eyes can help an individual determine their own value and serve as weapon against low self-esteem.


The 3 Pillars Of Confidence - No.2

We hear the word 'confidence' very often. But it isn't a single word which is easy to access. Confidence actually consists of three crucial parts, matching together in a kind of emotional triangle. Until we have all three elements, personal confidence will always be elusive. That is why confidence cannot be 'learned' neither are there any instant fixes or cures for the equally low self-esteem.


Confidence Killer (3)- Weak Principles

Do you have strong values, or do they tend to change with the wind and whomever you might wish to impress? The cornerstone of great confidence and self-esteem is to enjoy being you are and to be proud of it. This confidence killer sets up conflicting feelings within us which can affect our identity.


What Others Think of You is None of Your Business!

As you climb the ladder of success, you will find jealous or envious people slinging potshots at you. It's inevitable, you can't make everyone happy with the choices you will make now and in the future.


The Biggest Obstacle to Personal Achievement and Confidence

Are you the type who worries about the past and wish you had done things differently? Do you sometimes doubt yourself and your actions, feeling less than effective sometimes? The two are definitely related.


Betrayal Of The Soul - Lessons Learned From Emotional Abuse

What happens when we find ourselves involved with a relationship that doesn't feel right to our soul? If we run after the make believe story, we tend to shut off connection to our sense of what is real. We betray our souls.


Paralyzing Fear - The Ultimate Lie

Paralyzing Fear can be a sign of low self esteem. The fear and the lack of self worth are lies. Once we see the lie, the fear is gone.


Discover Secrets Of Acquiring Self Confidence

A person's future and career certainly depends on whether that person has trait of self-confidence in how they present themselves and solve problems.


Focus on the Prize - Not the Lies

Can I be honest? Even though I am a true Christian believer, sometimes I get sidetracked. When I let my soulish man take sides with the carnal man, my mind, my will and emotions go crazy. What I see with my eyes is enough to put me in a panic mode. But, once I return to the spirit man, and get in sync with what the Holy Spirit wants me to see through faith, then I can return to an inward peace that surpasses all human understanding. Life can hand out some pretty cruel judgments that just don't seem fair. Satan uses these schemes to deter us from focusing on what is necessary...the goal of Christlikeness. This is where we can remain calm, cool and collected when we come under attack from the world and those who are in it. It's the lies that can destroy us, but the goal of the prize is what keeps a true believer in the race! Are you in the running?


Coming Out To Your Parents Or Anyone Close To You

Coming out to your parents, siblings or anyone close to you can be fraught with anxiety depending on your history (real or perceived) with them.


Build Your Self Esteem By Setting Workable Personal Goals

Building your self esteem successfully is all about how well organized you are, setting yourself personal goals is an excellent way to build your self esteem more efficiently and make it run along smoother. With personal goals in place you are better able to achieve what it is you want out of life and by keeping a written journal of your achievements are able to see how far you have come. Goals can be set on different levels depending on what it is you wish to achieve. Starting out with small goals in mind and reaching these before moving onto higher ones will ease you into the routine of working with them. You can also set goals for the short term or the long term but the most important thing to remember is that they must be reasonably obtainable in a specific period of time.


What's in a Name? (2) The Language of Slavery

How does the language we use uplift or degrade us? With Britain currently commemorating the 200th anniversary of the Abolition of the Slave Trade, it got me thinking about the real legacy of slavery on Black people, particularly in how we perceive ourselves and the names we use.


What's in a Name? (3) The Enslavement of our Children

Does the way Black children are behaving have anything do do with the slavery of their ancestors? With Britain currently commemorating the 200th anniversary of the Abolition of the Slave Trade, it got me thinking about the real legacy of slavery on Black people, particularly in how we perceive ourselves, the names we use and the way our low self-esteem affects our children.


Having True Self-Confidence

Developing self confidence is necessary if you want to easily achieve your goals. The less self confidence you have, the harder the journey to get from where you are to where you want to be. In fact, without it, you may lack the ability to dream of better things. Without a vision, a big dream, you will remain stuck.


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