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Ten Ways Control Issues Can Harm a Marriage
Is your spouse too controlling? Are you too passive? Or are the roles reversed? Control issues refer to who’s in control, who’s in charge, or who’s getting their way. Significant control issues are always harmful to a relationship. Here are ten reasons you need to be concerned if you have unresolved control problems in your marriage.
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A Mission of Love - Understanding Motive in Relationships
Mission of love means whoever you are with is perfect (stay)
Mission of love means that your opinions are cheap substitutes for love
Mission of love means what you do is less important than how you feel.
Mission of love means today is the most important day of love
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How to Stay in a Marriage When Times Are Tough
Divorced spouses are usually no happier after divorce than before except in marriages where there is physical violence. On the other hand, many married couples who had once been unhappy together for an extended period of time were able to turn their marriages around to become happily married even in spite of serious problems.
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Help To Save Your Marriage
O.K. there are problems...serious problems with your marriage relationship, but you're not divorced. It isn't too late! Now you're open to all the advice, help and tips you can get to try and rescue you marriage. It's going to be hard work, but no harder than starting over with a stranger. If you're serious and your spouse is at least undecided, this article will lead you to the help you need to save your marriage.
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Dating, Relationships and Your Brain
There are many unconscious forces at work in every stage of a relationship that have the potential for undermining your best efforts to sustain love if you are not aware. Being fully aware is difficult and controlling the outcome is impossible. In this article we'll look at brain development as a biological force that might be at play when you are making relationship choices.
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Deception…The Whittler of Your Soul
There are no deeper wounds that are harder to heal, than those inflicted by lies and deceit. Do you stay in the game or pack up your bags and move on?
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Can We Overcome the Power of Limerence?
Limerence is an involuntary cognitive and emotional state characterized foremost by intrusive thinking, longing for reciprocation and sensitivity to external events signifying uncertainty or hope in relation to a person of our desires. It can be destructive and tiring for an individual. This article briefly provides a case study and asks about a possible solution for escaping the clutches of limerence.
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Made In Heaven, Finished In Hell - Part 1
Thinking of tying the knot but not sure if it's a case of Mr/Miss Right? Before waltzing down the aisle hear what's in the heart of the matter and what matters to the heart.
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Should You Bad-Mouth An Ex?
Break ups are painful - no matter why they occurred. But there is something even more painful about a break up when the guy has treated your horribly right? When he has cheated, or was abusive, or a liar, or just plain ole' mean.
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Black Men and Women Coming to the Table
Many would agree there is a need for Black men and women to come together and work towards healing our relationships. Black people have the lowest marriage rates and the highest divorce rates.
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Stereotypes
The stereotypes associated with the wonderful Jewish nation are usually as follows: Jew is a person who practices Judaism, all Israelis are Jewish, Jews have huge noses (because air is free), an unusually large forehead, a Jew owns the most part of the world mass media, likes to kill Palestinian children, and whose only goal in life is to make as much money as possible and then take this money to the grave with him because it is too insatiable to pass on their wealth to their children.
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A Lasting Relationship
Sex is just a physical and temporary expression of lust while lovemaking is an emotional and lasting expression of trust.
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The First Touchdown - Creating Deeper Intimacy
Men and women have different values and different ways of accessing intimacy in their relationships. We all desire intimacy and want our partner to also be our best friend. Men are generally motivated visually and tactilely, initially looking for a physical bonding. Women, by contrast, are generally auditory, motivated by emotion and initially looking for emotional bonding. So how do we bridge the gap? There are a few easy and simple techniques that can help you bond and obtain a deeper intimacy.
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Why Women Agree To Being a Mail Order Bride
Some women cringe at the thought of other women becoming mail order brides. In fact, most women have no idea why a single woman would ever put herself on the market in such a way.
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A Perfect World
While we have our own diverse and cultural differences, there are some common basics upon which we can all agree and move forward to build up a truly perfect world.
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The Relationship Forecast Report - Overview for the Year 2006
2006-2007 a time when the earth moves more fully through a cleansing and rebalancing cycle as we revisit our individual/collective history in preparation to co-create a new earth story, a 'heart story' that supports us remembering our true purpose for being. As we surrender to embrace our pain, we will have the courage and fortitude to co-create new foundations for more conscious loving relationships. Free from our collective past, we can set out to explore the new world. Empowered, together we can delight in the adventure as we open to celebrate new dimensions of life in the ship with all of our relations!
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So Am I: Projecting Our Qualities
How is that that I have great and not so great relationships with different people? What is there that makes me like and be liked as well as hated (or disliked) and hateful (or despising)? Why do I recognize negative qualities in some people and positive qualities in other people?
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